Time is not Kind, We are Kind

The saying “Time has been kind.” Or even “Life has been kind.” – I don’t buy it. Time is not kind, it’s ever racing away from us. Life is not kind, it’s boot camp and not even the strongest survive. So that’s why, when you look in the mirror, you must remind yourself that YOU…

Screw Doing What You’re “Supposed” To!

“What is your definition of #success?” a friend asked me today. This being 40 thing has me all over the map as far as what I am actually doing vs. having it ingrained in me that I am “supposed” to be adulting – whatever that means. I had to dissect her question because my answer…

Don’t Let Anyone Tell You You’re Not Enough

Last night I woke up from a dream. My overactive brain plays tricks on me to get me to think and last night was no different. In this dream, various people I know pointed out my shortcomings to my face. Like all the negative lines I’ve heard in life came out in one dramatic screenplay….

How to Love Yourself First and Not Feel Guilty

I was raised with the whole “Do unto others…” thing and believe in it wholeheartedly, but the longer I live, the more I’ve learned to show myself the love I so often shower on others instead. When given a choice – you can live or you can die, and the end result is because of…

Men, are you desperate?

So… this article was one I had reservations writing. I had to really get out of my head and preconceived notions about desperation and men and women and our whole sordid dating dance we do. I really think the points could ring true for both sexes but this one, the Editor wanted directed at men….