Screw Doing What You’re “Supposed” To!

“What is your definition of #success?” a friend asked me today. This being 40 thing has me all over the map as far as what I am actually doing vs. having it ingrained in me that I am “supposed” to be adulting – whatever that means. I had to dissect her question because my answer…

How to Love Yourself First and Not Feel Guilty

I was raised with the whole “Do unto others…” thing and believe in it wholeheartedly, but the longer I live, the more I’ve learned to show myself the love I so often shower on others instead. When given a choice – you can live or you can die, and the end result is because of…

Atlantis / Morning Glory EP sales go to Sri Lankan Flood Relief

**** ALL PROCEEDS GO TO SUBANDRIO FOR SRI LANKAN FLOOD RELIEF **** Dubai-based producer Subandrio has been taking us all by storm with one heavy-hitting release after another. This time he teams up with Modern Agenda’s own Amber Long who adds her vocal touch to his work. The Atlantis / Morning Glory EP is a…

Take time for you

Tomorrow my man gets home after a week away. Yes, I miss him but I also got right into doing my own things at home… Like wearing pajamas for 3 days straight, napping at 5pm or eating cupcakes for breakfast with zero guilt. Music, editing, vocals, silence, naps… Being antisocial. It’s been good. Even work…

A Woman Without Wine

January 11, 2016¬†marks my one year anniversary of cutting alcohol, more specifically wine, out of my life. It was initially a hard break-up but just like any love affair gone wrong, the pain subsided eventually and the sun came out again. To give you a background as to my reasons, I will be very blunt…